Monday, November 22, 2010

Especially for Girls...

A "new" (not really new, but newly re-designed) website that one of my friends directed me to! Daughterhood by Design is a primarily web-based magazine written by girls to encourage us to reach the high standard God wants us to reach. And they've recently re-designed their website to be particularly friendly to those of us who reach them from the web! I'm looking at it right now (multi-tasking, yes) :) and am excited about keeping up with their new articles as they come out. Check them out!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Reaching Others while Staying at Home :)

I love writing to people! Whether it's letters, hand-stamped cards (my personal favorite) :), emails, Facebook messages, or forum/blog posts, I love communicating with people! And I've found it's a wonderful way of developing friendships and reaching out to people. I have been "e-pals" with two missionary kids so far and it's been a wonderful experience both times. One of those e-mail and chat buddies is now my best friend in real life (although we're back to phone calls and emails since he left for boarding school), and another is currently overseas, but hoping to come to college with me. Whether you're writing emails to and chatting with an MK who just needs support, encouragement, and prayers; making a card for your work supervisor or other friend who's having a tough time in life; or helping other kids with their questions about life, writing is a wonderful way to communicate and make people feel loved and special. And you can do it all from your desk and/or computer! It's a simple outreach that can have big results!

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Thursday Thoughts--Who Are You Being?


What am I showing to other people? What do they see in me? It's fascinating to me to watch people's reactions as they get to know me. I am reasonably conservative compared to most of my friends here where I live, although I'm not very conservative compared to a lot of other people. For example: I wear jeans and shorts, but my clothes aren't skin-tight, low-cut, or revealing; I listen to some contemporary Christian music, but I still can't figure out how you can really praise God by destroying your hearing; I watch movies, but not very often (at all!) and not most of the ones that my less-than-conservative friends are watching; I'm allowed to date, but I'm choosing to fall in love with GOD first and not worry about guys till later.

For a long time I was afraid to be labeled. I wanted to fit in with the crowd. I still do, to one extent or another, but I'm beginning to be more comfortable with the person God is leading me to be. If I'm just like everyone else in the world, what do I have to give them?

And it's amazing to me to watch people's reactions. At first they may find it difficult to talk to me, if all they can talk about is the latest movies and popular songs; and that's always frustrating to me. I want to be friends, but how can we talk if you seem totally uninterested in real life? ;) But when they really have something on their hearts, God has over and over been able to use me to reach them. Which, when He does, is an amazing experience!

So it's something I find myself thinking about. Who am I being? Who am I showing to others? Am I showing them that all I really care about is the normal way of doing things, or am I showing them that there's Someone even better out there?